Hi everyone!
Friends of Steve Network is for everyone who knew Steve to share their thoughts and love. Please post your quotes, your photos, your stories ... anything you would like to contribute to this flow of good karma.
Be generous, be creative, be yourself!
Cheers and enjoy!
Dominic
Oh my oh my. I am having a hard time getting my head around Steve having moved on the the next adventure. I phrase it that way because I suspect he would see the whole thing- dying- as an exotic journey, an opportunity for learning and expansion, an inevitable wonder to be encountered and embraced. Such a big generous spirit you have my friend. This big hunk of a man who always surprised me with his "feminine" curiousity. Really big doses of both yin and yang. And always youthful. Eager, balanced curiosity. Enthusiasm. Readiness. THE SMILE in the eyes and the flash of the teeth- even under stress. Always looking for the opening in a situation, a refusal to be boxed into any kind of a negative situation. He sought out the light. I trust it is shining brightly and warmly on you now. Lots of love to Tracey and Finley--- shine on them too in this time of loss. Wishing you a glowing heart. I miss you. To absorb this change, I just have to think of you still seeking and revelling in the new . Love,
Rosemary
You are in paradise now with the Universe---as you always were my dear friend.
Always helpful, always happy with a terrific sense of humour, a loyal friend, an extremely talented actor and director.
I have never met your beautiful wife Tracy and your exquisite son Finley--but Steve is still with you, only now he is everywhere around you, within you....he is your gaurdian angel now!!!!
God bless you both
I'm so deeply saddened.
Steve was truly one of the nicest, smartest, funniest, kindest guys that I've ever had the of pleasure of working with and knowing.
His loss leaves a hole in all the hearts of all those who knew and loved him.
My deepest condolences.
Hal
I just found out about Steve passing away, what a loss... And I'm at a loss for words...
My most sincere sympathy to his lovely wife Tracy, and their son. And to Steve's family, his sister and his lovely parents. Life has a way of throwing us one from the left field. This is how it feels to me.
I'm grateful and glad to have spent some time with him over the years, he always was for me a friend of quality... A kind and lovely man.
Oh dear... Rest in Peace Steve Adams!
Karen Racicot
It's surreal to lose such an amazing friend. The sadness is gradually transforming into gratitude and joy. But still, It's difficult to put into words how much Steve meant to me.
Steve was all about making his dreams happen. And he knew living his dream meant hard work, lots and lots of patience, blisters and sacrifice. Little by little - every day. You were always moving forward, Stevie, making the dream happen, and living it. Living your dreams. Of racing cars, becoming an actor, a writer, a father.
You opened up a lot of hearts with your smile your generosity and your stories.
And you were loved for it. Thank you and fairwell, my storytelling friend.
My heart goes out to Tracey, Finley, Steve's family, and his amazing friends.
Dominic
Beautiful Tracey;
I remeber when you first introduced me to Steve. You glowed! And so did he! At last your love had come along!
That perfect union produced the incredible little Fin Man. What a wonderous and cheeky sprite. So much like both of you. Children are such a miracle. To watch you and Steve as parents was equal parts beautiful, touching and goofy. Exactly as it should be.
I watched as you both navigated the treacherous and murky waters of Steve's illness. Your capacity for strength and grace and patience in the face of fear still overwhelms me. You both tackled this beast with such incredible grace. Everyone you encountered, everyone who knows you, and the doctors, nurses, technicians, administrators in the medical jungle all seemed in awe of you. We are all in awe of you.
Spending the last few days with you has been a true gift. I think you are a wonder. A true angel on this earth.
You carry Steve's legacy and his sprirt and his dreams for you and for Finley, with that impecable grace that you possess. He must be so proud of you.
Blessed were we to know Steve. Blessed are we to know you.
Such love, from all over the world is with you today. Wrap yourself in it. You are loved.
xx Amanda
Dear Tracy,
I send you - and Finlay and your family - much love and support right now. It sounds like you are surrounded by this goodness. I was deeply saddened to hear the news of Steve's illness and passing. A beautiful man. Well loved and loving.
I am thinking of you here in Toronto.
xo
Liza
My heartfelt prayers go to Tracey and Finley and the rest of your family at this time. What can one say about your remarkable life? Your smile and positive energy opened all the doors you needed. People love you. But you knew that. I remember when you told stories of your days as a racing car driver and I wondered "When did you you fit that in?". Other people have predicatable, linear lives but you went where you needed to go, embracing each place, career, person, or time you met fully and completely. Thank you for your smile. Thank you for your positive outlook. Thank you for the laughter and love. Thank you for the blessing of Finley now carrying you forward to many more adventures. Thank you Steve.
When trying to assimilate a loss of this magnitude, heartfelt condolences pale.
Not until one is confronted with a sobering and life altering event is vanity and pride eclipsed by far more important issues. Sadly, it seems only then one’s perspective assumes an objective and balanced point of view. Priorities realign and are at last seen in their true and rightful place.
Steve and I have known one another since the early 80's. I realized quickly in our working together that he was a formidible talent and a genuinely gracious man. I was truly honored to become his friend. And, when life and its' capricious circumstances put us at opposite ends of the continent, our friendship endured over the decades.
I send my unconditional love and prayers to Tracey & Finley in their time of overwhelming grief. I wish you both strength. Steven you will always be in my thoughts and heart. Your pal, Gilbert Shilton
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Much respect and fondness for you Steve - one of the nicest people I've met in this crazy business.
Marjorie
Steve, I wish I had met you sooner than upon your departure to BC to nurture your new young family. It was instantly obvious that you were a good soul. Your love for Tracey and then Finn made my heart lighter. Now, my heart is heavy for the loss of all of those who held you so dearly to their hearts and they will cherish the many memories you have created with them. Tracey, I so wish I could refresh the timeline and order a rewrite. xoxo
Shine on, gentle soul. You are greatly missed. Thank you for touching my heart.
We'll meet again, don't know where, don't know when, but I know we'll meet again some sunny day! Johnny Cash
Dearest Steve, I know you fought the big fight, and I'm so proud of you for giving it your all. Rest in peace my friend, you deserve it. I miss you and I look forward to seeing you again, some sunny day.
Steve, I am taking a piece of you with me.
You are a man of honour. Of grace. Of strength and of joy. Of gratitude.
You are so dear to my heart, I feel lost.
Bless your beautiful wife and son.
You will be my friend forever. I love you.
" They that sleep in the dust of the earth...shall awake: some to everlasting life; some to shame and everlasting disgrace." (Dan. 12, 2)
I'm Alvin, Chrissy's nephew, offering my deepest sympathy to the family who have lost a loving and great husband and a father. In my almost sever years of being a nurse, I know what it feels like to have a significant someone departing right before them. We know the fact that the last sense which diminishes from a person before its last breath is his hearing, every drop of tear catched by his face and every single words and whisper that you utter counts as his last carry-on baggage to heaven.
Steve, may you be sleeping right now but when you wake-up, everlasting breath and happiness will be yours forever in the arms of our Almighty Father.
Again, on behalf of my Aunt Chrissy and Aunt Gen, our innate condolences and support to the family and bid farewell to Steve...a FAMILY MAN.
GONE BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN
Dear Steve,
From the shining heart warmth of our dear friends, Cher and Morgan, love and prayers was requested for your well being. Your wonderful family and friends across this country and great world sure do love you, Tracey and Finn.
God bless you all and your family and friends.
kindest, tony
It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye.
Steve --
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your lovely family. Just thinking about your infectious smile, your incredible zest for life, your inflappable positivity makes us smile. We feel so gifted for having you in our lives.
Morgan & Cher
I am heartbroken.
Thinking of you all and sending so much love. I was remembering just now how, when my friend Tracey had just met this great guy called Steve who lived above a store on Pape Ave, I asked the landlord, an aquaintance, what Steve was like and he responded with a huge smile and tons of joy 'Oh! He's amazing! He's a wonderful tennant! A wonderful guy! He is better than ten thousand womens!!!' Turns out he was right....and what a joy it is to know you. Wishing you love and strength, courage and determination, Colette xxx
hey steve
I find myself singing hey ho the Goddess on an almost daily basis now.Could still dig up the cassette in a pinch,and think of your warm,infectious smile as a force in the universe.Prayers and blessings and a rousing chorus as i head to bed.xo
Hello Steve!!!
This is Von. I used to own bisogno espresso bar. i remember the days you and dominic would come and make the place look full! Ah...those were the good ol' days, huh?
I am in South Africa with my boys. I have been seperated from Micah for all but one year of his life and Dante for over nine months. I am so happy being with the loves of my life.
I know the journey you're going through and I couldn't help but feel strongly the courage you are applying in your daily life. Good on you, bro! I want you to know that I am thinking good thoughts and sending you south african good vibes in your journey.
Your acting training will help you focus "in the moment", one breath at a time. It has proven very useful for me in my times of high stress. I hope it does you well too. I also find it helpful to watch movies that make me laugh. It's a great adrenaline rush.
I shall think of your infectious smile, Steve. You have a lot of friends that love you and support you.
Fare Well
ciao
von
Dear Steve,
Today, I went to church and pray again for your speedy recovery. I am always thinking of you, since the last time I saw you guys last Jan. 9. This is I wanted to say, remember the WORD, "tHE TIMES WHEN YOU HAVE SEEN ONLY ONE SET OF FOOTPRINTS IS WHEN I CARRIED YOU.' In other words he is always there for you.Something so powerful can happen someone so special come along. Please don't give up hold on tight to our "Almighty Father." Trust in him at all times pour out your heart to him. god is not far away, he is near reaching out his hand to heal you.. You're such a good person, very strong man, kindhearted and loving father to Finley and loving husband to tracey. There's nothing difficult to God, if you asked him to help you. He'll be there always. He deeply loved you. All your family and friends including me, we are all here for you. Please hold on tight Steve, just always think positive that you will be healed. In everyday of your lives he is there with you. He loves you. Just don't give up. God bless.
A big hug for you Tracey and Finley.
Love and Prayers,
Chrissy
Steve,
You and I have known each other for so long and seen each other though so many different times in our lives. I could spend hours remembering all the dream-filled, joyful, inspirational, creative, hilarious, poignant and even challenging moments we’ve shared. But through it all, you seemed to most enjoy the moments where you got to dig deep into my soul and pull out what was really going on. And even though at times I protested, I also counted on you for it. To merely thank you will never be enough.
You have always been a true friend to me, Steve. As you have been to so many of us. I'm so glad to see that the network you imagined is indeed a reality.
Love always.
Scott
Steve, I think about you and your beautiful family all the time and I try to send you all positive, healing vibes. When I think of the craziness you have all been dealing with this these past months I almost gulp for air. I know in my heart of hearts you can beat this thing. You have a big life in you and there is a big life out there waiting for you. Take all the time you need to get healthy. The world will wait for you. Big big loves to you, Tracey and Finley. Hopefully I can make it out to the mountains one of these days for a visit. Love, love, love always, Megan
Steve, Tracy, Finley...our wonderful next-door neighbours during our time at W. We miss you dearly and you are all in our thoughts and prayers. When we spent time together during hallball sessions or on the 4th floor, we were sharing the wonderful moments of parenthood together with you guys, watching our kids grow and play together.
Lincoln and I often met Steve and Finley in the elevator going down, or at the JJ Bean getting our daily fixes, before strolling along the seawall with the kids over to the Jellyfish Gymboree, or another playgroup that we frequented regularly. Every time we chatted, I was drawn in by Steve's genuine spirit and wholehearted awesomeness. Thank you!
Love Dallas, Eva, Lincoln, Levi.
Hey Stevie:
Can't figure out how to post that photo of you and I on the beach -- always counted on you for the techno stuff, counted on you for lots, currently, I'm struggling with the positive, you always knew how to put a spin on the tricky bits and turn 'em into something good. I'll always treasure our seawall walks, we'd talk out story ideas, I'd complain about some turning point that had been plaguing me for days, you'd inevitably come up with an awesome twist. I miss everything about you, and I will have to be diligent to keep up with what you gave me -- off the top it goes like this: to be honest with myself, and continue to live in respect, truth and commitment, to not be so hard on myself, to buy a fucking iPhone, to write faster and get it out there, but above all else to keep you in my heart forevermore, and to love and cherish your family as I would my own. This isn't anything I haven't said to you on any given day...just that now, with this lovely website that Dominic gave it's just that much easier to speak directly to you on this day of January 22. I love you. Glynis
We are your Port Colborne Connection...and we are holding you in our daily thoughts and prayers. We know that miracles ARE achieved by people banding together and sending out amazing healing whether by thought, prayer, or just being!
Your family is very blessed by having so many friends around and that counts for millions!!!
Sending lots of love your way...
Toni, Lorne, and Maria
Steve -
I remember going to Montreal for a screening of Succubus at the festival, and I was meeting you for the first time - you definitely tested me, to see if I was worthy of Ali. I thought, "Who is this gentle, lovely, warm and wonderful guy, and why do I suddenly feel like I REALLY want him to give me the thumbs up?" I think I got it, but it made me feel pretty special to be welcomed into your friendship circle. You're the kind of guy who observes without judgement, and sees the stuff in between the stuff. I admire you, and I love you. I'm sending the biggest hug I can possibly muster, to you, Tracey & Finley.
Steve,
Since I've known you, you've always had an incredibly warm and positive spirit. When you opened your eyes on Friday night and saw that Steph and I were there, you whispered our names and reached out your arms to us for hugs. And I knew your spirit hadn't changed one iota.
We told lots of stories about you this weekend, and I heard a great one from Tracey and her sis,TiTi about the day you were told of your diagnosis of "incurable cancer". As TiTi absorbed the news she fainted on the floor, followed shortly thereafter by Tracey. When the doctor asked who these women were you replied " my emotional support team".
Tracey, it turns out you were the best support anyone could wish for. Thanks for taking care of him so well.
Thanks Steve - you are a genuinely kind soul, a true friend, and such an important part of my life.
Love, Ali
Hey Steve,
Sending you lots of love and HUGE Hugs!
I fondly remember that snowy day In February doing the little hospital run for you guys on the night Fin was born. :-)
I attached some pics of that day we went to Mosport with your Dad. I still laugh at Tracey pulling our legs asking if the golf cart was a race car. Perfect picture tells all moment.
I have had the honor of calling Steve friend for more than 10 years. Strong, smart, gorgeous in a black turtle neck, funny, a great dancer and generous of heart. We have spent time together in Montreal, Toronto and Vancouver. All of them great memories. I wish my arms were long enough now to wrap them around him and give him a great, big, huge hug. Love always to Steve, Tracey and Finley. Forever in our hearts. Love Elisabeth, Guy and Linda
To this day my 3 (now grown) Sons sing this song to me.... and we chuckle :)
We all have fond memories of those days and think of you daily Steve,
sending white light and love! Lisa xo
I have known Steve for close to 30 years. We have lived on opposite sides of the country for most of that time and still we remained close. He has always been there to encourage me and he has always believed in me. How lucky I am to have him as a friend. When he met Tracey, I knew he had found his match; and Finley is a pure gift. You are surrounded by love my friend.
alexandra
Steve -- Forever I will remember times we shared running up Don Valley ravine, talking about writing & life & especially the day when you dragged me out to Church St when gay marriage legalized, ready to celebrate, and the street was quiet and we had to wonder where the party was. You were the party. All my good vibes going out to you. Much love, marg
Hi Steve,
I'm sending love and healing thoughts your way. Such a beautiful family you have and I feel so honoured to have been there on that snowy evening when darling Finley was born.
Love and hearts,
Kirsten
Steve, you're one of the few people on this planet to have shown any faith in me, and that is something I appreciate more than anyone can ever know. It's also something I'll never forget. You're a force of positivity in this world. Shine on, my friend.
Andrew
I love you Steve, I can barely imagine what you three are going through, I wish there were more magic drugs to reverse everything, you're a beautiful wonderful person and a great friend and I want you back. BIG LOVE,
-Mark M.
Hi Steve!
Talking with Tracey, we were looking for a name for this website and she told me of that vivid dream you had about as a site called 'Friends of Steve Network', where an amazing number of people were chaneling healing vibes for you. So here it is!
I thought I'd share some pictures I took of you, Finley and Tracey, when I was in Vancouver 2 years ago.
Thinking of you everyday
I'm sending lots of love your way
Dom
